Real Housewife Escorts in Chandigarh
Story Of Some Housewife Escorts in Chandigarh
Chandigarh has also become well known for its many Escort Services. They aren't unique to this city and are a widespread practice across India, but still, I was surprised when I first heard about them. This was going to be the topic of my series on Indiatimes.com and I began thinking: "What a great way to get some more attention on that site!"
So what are these women who make their living by escorting? Read on to find out.
Arunachal – An Escort
Arunachal is a 53-year-old housewife from the Indian state of Assam. She's married to a man who works as a factory manager, but he's not around much because he travels for work all over India. For the last decade or so, Arunachal has been coming to see me in my office every day after her husband goes to work since she knows I'm free at that time.
Although she has children, Arunachal isn't particularly close to them. She doesn't know what they do during the day and she wasn't really invited to their school events because it was too much work. She usually spent her free time volunteering at a local orphanage or volunteering at a library. She has a few friends but no family.
Arunachal is very close with her husband's mother, who looks after her and brings her whatever she needs. She also loves her mother-in-law because she's a widow and has the ability to forgive people and move on. Her husband's family doesn't like what she does as an escort because they think it's a bad idea to have someone else in your personal life—even though Arunachal had no intention of hurting anyone when she started out.
Arunachal is a very simple woman who chose to be an escort because she liked the idea of having money and didn't want her husband to notice if she suddenly had more money than usual.
Like most women who work as escorts, Arunachal doesn't think she's doing anything wrong. She says she's just helping me out with my work and that the people in her office don't mind that she spends time with me every day.
Arunachal told me that she's seen a lot of women in this office who spend all day at work and then come back home to their husbands to do more work. She wondered if they had any idea how hard it was to be a housewife.
Arunachal told me that the men in her office make jokes about escorts, but that nobody really understands why these women do what they do.
"They think an escort is a bad person," she told me. "They have no idea what we are going through."
Asha – An Escort
Asha is a 33-year-old housewife from the north Indian city of Lucknow. She works as an escort in the afternoons and on weekends, but her husband has no idea that she does this for a living. She doesn't really mind because she's not about to let him tell her what to do just because he makes more money than her.
Asha was supposed to be going on a trip with her husband to Delhi later that week, but she was late leaving for the airport because she'd been helping me with my work. So I asked her if she could please help me out by finishing up some of my work since I'd already promised to take her on this trip when everything was planned.
"There's a lot you need me to do," Asha said. "I don't want to get in trouble with him. I know I shouldn't do this, but I can't help it."
Asha is from a small town in the north-central part of India. She moved to Lucknow with her husband when she was in college, got married, and was soon able to have two children. She was surprised that her husband started working for the government because he's an engineering graduate and had worked for a communications company before that.
When Asha came to my office to help me out with my work, her husband was already at home. But he didn't know that she was an escort, so she told him she had to go do some shopping. She was worried that if he found out what she did for a living, he would tell her family back home and then they wouldn't let her come see me anymore.
"I know what I'm doing is wrong," Asha said. "But it's better than staying home every day. The only way you can feel good about yourself is to do something. You have to do something and do it well."
"I'm working for myself," Asha told me. "I'm not selling myself like everyone else who comes here."
Asha works as an escort in the afternoons and on weekends, but she's not interested in meeting any of my clients or joining them for dinner. She's a different kind of housewife escort, but everything else is pretty much the same.
"I've been doing this for about three years," Asha said. "It's much better than staying home with my kids all day. I know what I'm doing is wrong, but it's not like I'm working on the street or anything."
Like most of the other women who work as housewives escorts, Asha doesn't think she's doing anything wrong. She says she doesn't lie to her husband and that he knows exactly what she's doing for a living.
"He's a good man," Asha told me. "I tell him I'll be home at 7:30 but I get to my office at 8:00 and then I go back home from there. I give him a call every day, so he knows my schedule."
Asha is convinced she can find a way to stop doing this the next time she gets pregnant. She just wants to have kids and stay at home with them and doesn't want this to get in the way of that.
"I know I'm not going to do this forever," Asha told me. "I just want to be there for my kids when they need me."
Asha is also starting to consider the fact that she might have a career beyond this, but she's not sure what it would be or where she would go.
And like most other women who work as escorts, Asha has a lot of ideas about what kind of bigger life she could live if things were different and more stable. She wants to have two children with her husband and she wants to be able to work and take one of the kids with her when she has to go on a business trip or meet with a client.
"I want my family to be together," Asha said. "I just want everything for us to be okay."
Asha was working as an escort in the afternoons because she had no other options. Her husband works for a large company, so finding another job would take too long for something that pays well.
Asha said she wants her kids to do better than she and her husband because she didn't have the kinds of opportunities that they get.
"I just want to be a good mother," Asha told me. "My sister-in-law said I shouldn't be an escort, but it doesn't matter what she thinks. I'll stop when the time is right. I just want to be a good person. I want to make up for what I didn't have as a child."
Like most of the other women who work as escorts, Asha is making money for her family and that's all she cares about. She doesn't know if she can ever live with the things she's done in the past, but she also doesn't want to worry about it anymore either. She just wants to take care of her kids and make sure they're okay.